Hi back again but this time I have a new subject. Recently I have been thinking of a new blog to write exept this time I will write it on the subject of solving problems being either family or friends. Let us say that your parents or even an older sibling hurts you physically, verbly, or mentally. Have you ever wanted to talk to this person about how you feel but you either don't know how to express your feelings which in some cases is why people cut themselves. Well one way to tell them is to talk to them and tell them how you feel. Another way to express your side of the story if you are either scared of the person stopping you or you are scared of what they might do is to write a letter. I have found this very helpful as it requires the person to process the words and you can't really speak up to a letter. Now, lets say that a friend has been hurt by either your ations or you were hurt by your friend. First of all if you hurt your friend maybe you should figure out why you did what you did then you need to figure out why you did this to the friend you hurt. A good sign of showing that you regret what you did of course is tears because they show that even though you did what you did you are sorry. What you should do to solve the problem is to talk but only do this after apologizing and giving him/her some space and time. You can do the same thing I stated above with a letter but space and time are very crucial things because they give the person a chance to think about what you said or wrote. Now if you are the one that has been hurt and they don't do any of these things it might be because they are scared that you might rip their head of or something and maybe you do but that is never a way to help solve problems because it will have serious consequences. There are two extremely serious consequences one of which is that you will lose that friend. The other is that you will be arrested for murder. What you should do is forgive them so that none of the consequences happen. (even if you really want to rip their head off)