If people get ditched in a chat it's probably because A. They're noobs B. No one knows them or C. They failed to join the conversation. No reason to cry because no one wants to talk to you. Get over it.
Ilu. Nohomo.
But yeah, most conversations on the chatrooms end as such, mainly for the reasons k3v1n spoke of. If their feelings get hurt by it, just move on, find a real friend and forget about those people.
The button I carry around doesn't necessarily make things EASIER...