Bulletin Board Posts by Siling-La

The distinguished banjo2 spake:

The distinguished Siling-La spake:[quote]
My sister just bought a switch lite, and we know nothing about it, so I will be looking here a lot for tips and help.

Is there anything that I can help with? [/quote]

So far, not really. I don't think she's had any problems, but I'm not really allowed to use it so..
Today she let me do one race on her Mariokart, though. I love the graphics. She has The Legend of Zelda: Breath of the Wild, and as a huge Zelda fan, I really want to try it out. She hasn't let me yet though. I own two games in the Zelda series, and I've been playing for about two years. I allowed my sisters to start playing them about a month ago and they're both hooked on it now. Breath of the Wild is actually one of the main reasons she bought the switch lite. So, it's a little disappointing that I'm allowing both of them to play my games and I'm not allowed to play hers.

Barbie

My sister just bought a switch lite, and we know nothing about it, so I will be looking here a lot for tips and help.

The lion became king of pride rock, married a peacock, had a baby dog and then...

10/10

Amazing and powerful words.

The USA media wrote an article about the lion and the cheese and the government claimed both the lion and the cheese but Russia refused to give up the cheese starting WWIII, WWIV, and WWIV all at the same time! And then...

Well, you didn't pay for debugging!

Waiter, there's a Skeptic(al) in my soup!

What's a BB?

Siling labuyo peppers

The distinguished Finrod spake:

The distinguished Siling-La spake:[quote]The distinguished aidansocool spake:The distinguished Gemini Guardian spake:The distinguished FiNrOd spake:The distinguished Gemini Guardian spake:The distinguished FiNrOd spake:The distinguished Gemini Guardian spake:Why don't we invite our irl friends?

They don care about Low traffic websites.

Then your friends suck.


Your friends can't suck if you don't have friends.

True... :/

I got one of my rl friends to join.

Lemme guess it was Gnilis-Ai????[/quote]


No, Gnilis-Al is my alt. Bluedolphin is her username.

The distinguished aidansocool spake:

The distinguished Gemini Guardian spake:[quote]The distinguished FiNrOd spake:The distinguished Gemini Guardian spake:The distinguished FiNrOd spake:The distinguished Gemini Guardian spake:Why don't we invite our irl friends?

They don care about Low traffic websites.

Then your friends suck.


Your friends can't suck if you don't have friends.

True... :/

[/quote]

I got one of my rl friends to join.

7/10 because beautiful but bewildering

The Canadian Mounted Police took him to Canada and threw him in jail and then...

The Dsi gamer spake:

whaiter theres a BOOTLEG DORA IN MY SOUP

You don't quite understand how this works, do you?

The distinguished banjo2 spake:

The distinguished Siling-La spake:[quote]The distinguished banjo2 spake:9/10, I like it and it's usually true.


It's false! The average human can only reach up to ~10 feet when jumping.

Ok

0/10, it's an absolute lie, Siling is not to be trusted. All of his poems are meaningless. Siling-La more like Lying-La[/quote]


Oh. Nevermind...

The distinguished banjo2 spake:

9/10, I like it and it's usually true.

It's false! The average human can only reach up to ~10 feet when jumping.

10/10 because that's beautiful.

The distinguished heaven.is.a.joke spake:

The distinguished Siling-La spake:[quote]Your meditation methods may help, but they cannot fix most things. Not trying to hate on your ideas, and I certainly don't want to tell you what does and doesn't work for you, but I don't think that will help in my particular circumstances. It may bring peace and rest, but it won't change my family.

I am just currently going with it. Y'know, addressing it as it happens. It's hard to describe because it's almost always different every time.

Sometimes you cant change things, though, and relaxation is a nice break from it all, for me at least[/quote]


True, but it's still hard to deal with. I wish there was a way for me to not be bothered by it. :[

Your meditation methods may help, but they cannot fix most things. Not trying to hate on your ideas, and I certainly don't want to tell you what does and doesn't work for you, but I don't think that will help in my particular circumstances. It may bring peace and rest, but it won't change my family.

I am just currently going with it. Y'know, addressing it as it happens. It's hard to describe because it's almost always different every time.

The distinguished heaven.is.a.joke spake:

The distinguished Siling-La spake:[quote]The distinguished heaven.is.a.joke spake:The distinguished Siling-La spake:The distinguished heaven.is.a.joke spake:The distinguished Siling-La spake:The distinguished heaven.is.a.joke spake:Welcome to Therapy! What would you like to talk about? This is a safe space.

Family problems I'm having. Is that okay to talk about here?


yes. What's going on? My family is a mess at the moment as well, so you aren't alone in that.


It's mostly my father. He is a good father, but not a good dad. He is a workaholic, he doesn't listen to me, and he constantly forces his ideas on me, and forces me to make decisions that I would never make. He also expects me to be at his beck and call, and to be ready to drop anything at any given moment just to do what he wants. My little sister seems to hate me. She is sassy and rude to me almost all day, but when she wants something from me, she is amazingly nice. As soon as she gets what she wants though, she goes back to sassy and rude, and she avoids me until she wants something from me. If I tell her no, or tell her to stop being rude, she immediately goes to my mother, and convinces her to make me cooperate with her, or she tells my mother that I am being rude, and I get punished while my sister rubs it in my face while getting what she wants. I've tried to talk to my parents about her attitude towards me, but they dismiss it, or laugh. I don't understand.



I can definitely relate, siling. My Dad Is only there for me and my sister when it is convenient to him. he works from home, yet still seems to have no time for me. it hurts. i try to explain it all to him, but it goes right through him. he won't listen. I am going through a court case rn to try and stop the visits to his house My litte sister is very unpredictable. she can be super sweet one minute and hate you the next. she's extremely sassy too, haha. I find the best way to deal with this is to not show her how much it bothers you. eventually she'll get bored and stop. My mom is very angry. she's been a victim of abuse, and can't handle stress well.. There's a lot of stress at home right now, and it's miserable. When I talk to her she snaps at me to leave her alone. If you don't already have one, try to find a family therapist to work out your issues with. If your family doesn't want family therapy, you could always choose individual therapy, which is just someone you can vent to confidentially. please don't try to bottle your emotions up, as it is extremely overwhelming when they all explode at once.

Best Wishes-

* Liz *



Yeah. We tried counseling. Well, I did. I have ADHD, so I had a individual counseler. But there isn't much a counselor can do. You know. Most have pre-set questions and answers and just want money. There are some that help, but I really don't want someone to try to interpret my life for me, when I already get it. My family also has a great deal of stubborness and don't change their minds easily. In other words, they don't listen to the counselors.[/quote]



Preach, boi! Most councelors are only in that field for the paycheck, and have no experience outside of the book. I 100% share that opinion with you, but it works for some, so i felt like I had to mention it. Not for nothing, but my family puts on this act during therapy, and gets nasty about it when we get home.

If you're like me, which i'm 99% sure you are, I have gotten through hard times by writing. Nobody is there to judge, and while writing, I often discover things about myself that I didn't realize before. Writing is my one and only refuge from the chaos around me, it is my lifeline.

I also know you are very religious. While I personally don't share that trait, the rest of my family does, so i know a lot. I'm guessing you probably are praying a lot, but i know some people are able to have conversations with a higher being such as god through meditation. I meditate a lot, it's very cleansing after a stressful evening. You can do this anywhere, as long as it is quiet, dimly lit, and quiet. sit in any comfortable way and start to pray. focus on your breathing and how your body is feeling. Repeat this until desired, or until whenever you are able to interperate whatever the universe, or in your case, god is trying to make clear to you.

May i ask how you are dealing with all of this currently?[/quote]


Yeah, writing has definitely helped me, but only after I found Paint. Beforehand, when I wrote things, I was always judged by anyone who saw them, and not in a good way. :[ I didn't even show my girlfriend one until we had been together for 3 years. She was the first person who appreciated them. Anyways, I'm getting off-topic...

Yeah. God almost always helps me through hard times, and when He doesn't, He makes something good come from it later.

AGGGGHHH!! The text limit won't let me write more! I'm going to make a fresh post.